User blog:WolfPackAlpha/Mates?

How do they work? On the pages, it says things like Find a mate in this specific clan. I mean, what if you want to be a mate with someone? Do you have to send them a message on their talkpage? Do you have to delete it and add yourself to the mate list? I just want to know. If anyone else finds it confusing, then good. WolfPackAlpha 20:15, August 15, 2010 (UTC)